DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Domestic violence is a pattern of coercive and violent behavior that is designed to establish and maintain power and control over one’s partner. This issue affects individuals regardless of age, education level, sexual preference, sexual identity, class, ethnicity, race, religion, marital status, etc.

Abuse occurs in many forms. Although it is not always easy to immediately recognize an abusive relationship, knowing some of the signs of domestic violence can help save a life.

In addition to the forms of abuse described below, sexual assault frequently occurs within a violent relationship. Visit our Sexual Assault page for more information.

Resources for Victims & Advocates

Re-presenting Battered Women: Coercive Control and the Defense of Liberty, a 2012 article on coercive control from Stop Violence Against Women
What is Domestic Violence? from Safe Voices
Types of Abuse from love is respect
The Intersection Between Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault
When Someone You Care About Lives With Domestic Violence
How to Have an Informed Conversation About Domestic Violence, a fact sheet with tips from National Network to End Domestic Violence

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KNOW THE SIGNS

Physical Abuse

Pushing
Hitting
Biting
Spitting
Strangulation
Physical intimidation
Destroying victim's property
Throwing objects
Burning
Harming children or pets

Emotional Abuse

Belittling
Name calling
Mocking
Humiliation
Cheating
Minimizing abuse
Shifting blame to victim
Controlling and/or monitoring victim’s behavior
Demeaning victim in front of children, friends, or family
Threats to harm or kill victim
Threats to harm or kill victim’s children or pets
Gaslighting

Economic Abuse

Controlling all finances
Preventing victim from working
Creating debt for victim without their consent or knowledge
Demanding victim’s paycheck
Ensuring all assets are in their name rather than victim’s
Controlling use of a vehicle

To learn more about some of the key issues intersecting with domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking, visit our Resources page.

We Are Here to Help

If you need assistance with safety planning, getting an Order of Protection, accessing legal services, or would just like emotional support, The Friendship Center can help. If you or a loved one is struggling and want to request services or simply talk about the situation, reach out to our office. All our services are free and confidential.

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