
SEXUAL ASSAULT
Sexual violence is any unwanted sexual contact forced upon an individual. This can include actions such as unwanted touching of genitals, groin, anus, breasts, voyeuristic behavior, exhibitionism, attempted rape, and rape. It may involve actual or threatened force, coercion, and/or intimidation. Sexual violence is never wanted and never includes consent.
Consent happens when all parties willingly and enthusiastically agree to any sexual act. The process is clear, direct, and ongoing throughout the entire experience. Consent may be withdrawn by any party at any time and that person does not need to have a reason. Coercive consent is not consent. Badgering is not consent. Force or threat of force is not consent. Fear of violence is not consent.
Responses to sexual assault can vary widely. Some individuals are very emotional and upset by the experience while others feel very numb and removed. Some individuals struggle with intimacy and contact while other seek out intimacy and contact. There is no “right” or “wrong” way for a victim to react.
Similar to domestic violence, sexual violence affects individuals regardless of age, education level, sexual preference, sexual identity, class, ethnicity, race, religion, marital status, etc.
Most perpetrators of rape are someone known to the victim, such as acquaintance, co-worker, friend, family member, or partner.
Rape and sexual assault are not about sex; they are about having dominance and control over the other person. In fact, most rapes are planned.
Sexual assault and rape have the same false reporting statistics as all other crimes and are some of the most underreported interpersonal crimes. If someone discloses to you that they have experienced sexual violence, believe them. Provide support, not advice. Refrain from asking a lot questions about what happened; many questions, though well-intentioned, imply the victim was somehow at fault for their assault. Instead, let them know you care about them and are there for them.
The Friendship Center can help victims who have experienced sexual violence as well as friends and family who are struggling with what happened to their loved one. Please reach out to our office or call our crisis line if you want to request services or simply talk about the situation.
Sexual Assault FAQs

In recognition of April as Sexual Assault Awareness Month, The Friendship Center presented a 2026 exhibit highlighting the diverse experiences of survivors of sexual violence and the need to end victim-blaming.
To help us bring this exhibit to life, we solicited stories and outfit descriptions from our own community in order to display 15 outfits—each representing about 3,000 survivors of sexual violence in our service region, where we can expect 33-50% of our 95,000+ residents to have experienced sexual violence at some point in their lifetime.
Although what were you wearing? has come and gone, if you’re a survivor of sexual violence who wants to share your story, we are leaving the call for stories form open! We will continue reviewing submissions received through the form, as we may be able to include stories on our sexual assault resource page or as part of future Sexual Assault Awareness Month programming. All fields of the submission form are optional and anonymous.

PREVALENCE OF DVSAS CRIMES
Domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking (DVSAS) are serious crimes affecting about half the population. Shame, stigma, and lack of awareness often keep these issues in the dark, but you are not alone.
Over half of women and almost 1 in 3 men have experienced sexual violence involving physical contact during their lifetimes.
About 41% of women and 26% of men experienced contact sexual violence, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner during their lifetime.
Almost half of all people in the US have experienced psychological aggression by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
11% of stalking cases last more than 5 years.
1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men experience stalking at some point in their lives.
Resources from TFC's Blog
To learn more about some of the key issues intersecting with domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking, visit our Resources page.


We Are Here to Help
Regardless of how long ago a sexual assault occurred, having a safe place to talk may be important for a survivor's recovery process. If you or a loved one has experienced sexual assault, and you want to request services or simply talk about the situation, reach out to our office. All our services are free and confidential.









